It is imperative that you take the time to review the questions below before contacting me. Many of your questions will be answered here and throughout my site. I appreciate those who understand and respect my time.

Where are you located?

I am between New York and Miami.  Please check my calendar for additional details.

Do you smoke?

I do not.

What is your ideal date?

My preference leans towards experience-based dates where our connection builds and unfolds over activities and food before retreating to somewhere more private. I enjoy hearing about your passions, stories, and anything that makes you, you.

What drinks should I bring?

Whatever drinks you enjoy. 

I want to bring you a gift. What should I get?

That is so sweet and thoughtful, thank you! Feel free to browse my Wishlist for ideas.

Where can I find out more about you?

To protect my privacy, I choose not to reveal personal details about myself as I prefer to maintain an air of mystery and anonymity. I have shared enough details to help you decide if you would like to get to know me better. Let’s meet in person, and you’ll learn much more.

Do you tour?

Yes.  Please make arrangements via Fly Me To You and view my Donations page for details.

When are you coming to my city?

I enjoy reserving my focus on cities where I have established friends. However, if you are unable to come to the NYC or Miami area and would want to have me to yourself in the comfort of your home city, feel free to text or send me an email to discuss planning an extended fly-me-to-you date.

Why did I not receive a response?

I will communicate once I’ve received your screening information. For priority response and booking, please fill out my booking form in its entirety. Due to the volume of requests, emails without complete information will be discarded. Screening is mandatory, with no exceptions.

I contacted you but haven’t heard back?

Please check your spam folder!  If you still don’t see my reply within 48 hrs, chances are you didn’t fully complete the booking form or have  asked a question that has already been addressed on my website.

As previously mentioned above,I choose not to entertain booking forms that do not include screening info as it wastes both our time. If you asked a question that my website already supplied the answer to, it shows that you have not done your research properly and are unwilling to invest your time in me.

Currently, longer dates that are arranged at least 48hrs in advance, and extended arrangements with regulars are prioritized.

How should I prepare for our date?

Familiarize yourself with the etiquette and you should be fine. Arrive on time, relax and enjoy yourself.  

This section is quite wordy  as I want to provide you with as much information as possible so that you may make an informed decision. In person, I much prefer to listen. 

How will we communicate?

Communication will be via email or preferably text. I ask that you respect my privacy and only text me as opposed to calling, unless first discussed. Please also be discreet in your communication. I do not answer explicit questions.

What is your preferred payment method?

Cash is preferred, always. Please leave the donation in plain view at the beginning of our date. In a public setting, please place the donation in a gift card or bag to present upon meeting. For deposits, I have a few  electronic payment methods available. I do not accept PayPal.

What is your cancellation policy?

I do ask for a notice of at least 24  hours prior to cancellation, otherwise a 50% fee will be incurred. If I do happen to cancel, which is exceptionally rare, I will immediately return the deposit. If you cancel, your deposit will be kept and can be rescheduled to another date.

When are you available?

I have a flexible, but busy schedule. I can accommodate most requests within a 24 hour notice. Fly Me to You and extended dates will require advanced notice.

Can I see you today?

Same-day booking is sometimes available to established friends. Due to my busy schedule last-minute dates are rarely available.

48hr advance notice is highly encouraged for a greater chance of securing a date.

Do you accept wardrobe requests?

Yes, within reason and with advanced notice.

Are your photos real?

Yes. My photos are authentic and taken within the past year. My photo gallery is updated regularly.

Do you have reviews?

Yes, reviews can be provided upon request.

Can I see a photo of your face?

Unfortunately, no. I uphold my privacy in the highest regard. I am, however, completely confident that my appearance will more than exceed your expectations.

Can we video-chat before our date?

No.

Can I still see you without providing screening info?

Unfortunately, no. Screening is mandatory to ensure my safety. Info submitted will be used to make sure you do not have a criminal record, are of appropriate age, and the person on the ID is the one I will be meeting. I advise that you don’t attempt to use someone else’s LinkedIn or fake references as it will get you blacklisted.

I simply discard inquiries that demonstrate attempts to bypass screening.

Are you reference-friendly?

Yes, if we’ve seen each other in the past six months and had a positive time. You may use me as a reference twice per visit.

Is having a p411 account sufficient for screening?

I will still require your ID or employment verification to screen as p411 accounts can be compromised.